Don’t just get by in your clothes, allow yourself to update your style so you enjoy how you look.
Giving yourself permission to update your style as you age and your lifestyle evolves is so important.
Style isn’t static. Our bodies change, priorities shift, and daily routines evolve — and our wardrobes should reflect that. Updating your style isn’t about chasing trends or admitting defeat; it’s about aligning your clothes with who you are now and how you want to feel.
Recognize practical needs As life moves through different phases — career shifts, parenthood, a change in activity level, or retirement — practical needs change too. Prioritize fit, comfort, and functionality without sacrificing polish. Investing in well-made pieces that move with you, breathe, and flatter your current shape will make dressing easier and more enjoyable.
Let go of "rules" Old rules (“you can’t wear that after X age,” or “only skinny jeans are modern”) are fading. Replace restrictions with principles: choose proportion, balance, and color that suit you. A relaxed blazer, tailored trousers, a flattering midi dress, or a quality sneaker can be age-appropriate and stylish simultaneously.
Honor personal identity: Updating style is an opportunity to express shifting interests and values. You may prefer minimalist investment pieces over impulse buys, sustainable fabrics over fast fashion, or a softer color palette. Consider what matters to you now — comfort? Versatility? Ease of care? Let those priorities guide purchases and listen to your gut.
Build a flexible core Create a capsule of go-to pieces that mix and match: well-cut outerwear, neutral tops, a few pairs of the most wonderful jeans and one or two standout items that reflect personality. Quality basics make it easier to experiment with trends in small doses, so updates feel intentional instead of overwhelming.
Experiment with small changes You don’t have to redo your whole wardrobe overnight. Start small, edit out the “never wear pieces” update footwear with fun and comfortable on trend sneakers or add one or two fabulous jackets. If your mind says no, try it on anyway. Small edits can have a big impact and make you feel refreshed without a large investment.
Be kind to yourself. Style evolution is a process. It’s OK to try something and change your mind. Celebrate the discoveries that make dressing simpler and you feeling more confident. The goal is to feel authentic and comfortable in the life you’re living and start showing up in clothing that reflects how you are feeling about yourself today.
Your style can — and should — evolve as you do. Giving yourself permission to change is a simple, powerful act of self-care.